Sesame I use and eat quite often. Luckily I don’t have allergie or intolerance symptoms from it. I eat sesame always cooked or roasted, never raw. Native sesame oil is my go to cooking oil. It is what I use the most and which is in my case the best tolerated one.
Tahini
Tahini is a great ingredient, whenever you need something creamy in your kitchen. Mix it with water and it turns into a dip or a sauce.
Tahini is my sweet treat for in-between meals. Mixed with maple sirup, it can be licked straight from the spoon. Very satisfying – indeed.
It is a great source of iron and other minerals, proteins, etc. very good for women.
Oil
I recommend to test out different brands until you find a mild nutty one which does not smell sour. Make sure it is unroasted sesame oil.
Roasted sesame oil (popular in Japanese cuisine) also tastes good, but should be used sparingly, more as a spice than as a cooking oil. The flavor is very strong, and I usually get skin irritations afterward.
But it's very tasty and sometimes I allow myself to walk around with pimples ;)